Monday, December 28, 2009

Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a differen

My girlfriend tells me that she didn't really like her ex, and all these things about him that she didn't like. She told me how he wasn't even funny like me and didn't even have chemistry with him like she does with me.



But the comments she had left him on his myspace WHEN THEY WHERE GOING OUT AT THE TIME, read like I luv u, ur a gift from God, etc.



It was a long distance relationship from the beginning with visits here and there. It lasted about a year. When we had met she told me she broke up with him because he was mormon and she is christian and the religious differences.



I know it is in the past, I don't care about how she felt about him back then because she is with me now, but why would she say that she didn't even like him when it is obvious at the time she 'thought he was a gift from God? That's what bugs me.



Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a different story?

At the time she might not have seen the things that caused their relationship to sour. If you asked me a year ago what I loved about my now ex I would have told you everything. But a few months later I began to see a side of him that I couldn't deal with so we broke up. I would only be bothered if she had written those things recently.



Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a different story?

She may be lying. Talk to her.



Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a different story?

Eh, we all say stuff we don't mean after we are broken up....either she never really liked him and faked it a bit or she is acting like she wasn't all that into him now.



Who cares? She is with you now....maybe she knew you were insecure and felt like she could set your mind at ease by making it sounds like they weren't very happy.



Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a different story?

I don't have a "my space" so I will say she might have changed her mind



Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a different story?

she was telling you what she thought you wanted to hear. just as she may have been telling him what he wanted to hear.



Ladies, why did my girl tell me she didn't really like her ex when her myspace tells a different story?

When relationship first start people don't really know the other person because human nature makes people put there best foot forward. At the time she was seeing him she was getting to know him and she only saw the good.. God's gift, handsome, funny etc. After a few months people start seeing things they don't care for and they either move forward or step out of the relationship... She stepped out of the relationship...I'm sure she saw something she didn't like. Don't worry about it, it's the past... I had all kind of good things I said to my ex when we were dating, hell I maried him. I don't like him anymore!!!

Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

so there is this guy i like and he's really cute. he's a nice christian ans so am i, and he goes to my church. he's 17 and im 14. i like him a lot and all my firends even one of my firends bf's says that he might my interested in me. i met at a dance i went to for my youth group and we talked a little. but we didnt really hang out. the only time i talk to him is on myspace and occasinally see him at church. i really like but i feel like he doesnt really like me becuse im to young or to fat. and i feel like he's to good for me. i dont know what to do. and need good christian advice.



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

I am not a boy but I am Christian so I think I can help.



I was 18 when I met a 24 year old Christian man named james. We dated and I thought I was on cloud nine. The problem was I just graduated HS and he graduated college 2 years before I ever graduated HS. We were in different walks in life, He was an engineer and I was a criminal justice college student. We parted ways and I was devastated....Now here I am 3.5 years down the road, I am a med student about to graduate college in June and in August I get married to Edwin. Life is better now, take my advice and stay in your age group for now.



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

age doesnt matter if u both like each other alot Report It



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

you are too young



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

One that had nothing to do with religion really two are you gay because you like a guy and you have a guy avatar if so i cant help you and three just talk to him do something you know he'll like if you know what i mean.Oh and here for more advice go here: http://www.freewebs.com/madjr86/talkers....



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

Yeah ur too young and hed probably just use u.



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

why not ask him directly??..



Guys only. I need serious help!!! Good christian advice!!?

There is never anything wrong with a little flirting.



And it's pretty much a sure indicator whether he likes you or not, depending on how he reacts.



Tell him you like his shirt, it looks good on him, smile. Or new haircut? You'll never really know until you talk to him face to face and flirt a little.



Christian-wise, there's nothing in the Bible against flirting.



It's harmless. And good testing ground.



Good luck.

What is the evangelical Christian's position on the issue of Global Warming?

What is the evangelical Christian's position on the issue of Global Warming?



I live in the arm pit of the Deep South in a poppulation that appears to be overwhelmingly from the Baptist persuasion. The message that I seem to be getting consistently in response to the question above is that "all we can do is pray" at this point, because the Book of Revelations had prophecized that the end if the earth would be imminent. To me, this attitude seems irresponsible. Yet that is the overall impression that I am getting from Evangelical Christians. Feedback?



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What is the evangelical Christian's position on the issue of Global Warming?

Jesus did not teach that we should pray and do nothing. The Bible plainly teaches responsibility and good stewardship. There's an old clique - - "put legs on your prayers". Christ Jesus also said "Occupy until I come". Christians should be good stewards of their environment as well as their families, that should just come naturally.



What is the evangelical Christian's position on the issue of Global Warming?

The Bible does not directly address global warming.



Anyone who says it does is probably twisting verses to suit their own ends.



The Bible does, however teach that this world will come to an increasingly catastrophic end, so anyone looking for that end could use global warming as evidence.



What is the evangelical Christian's position on the issue of Global Warming?

Save your breath: You will never change their minds...such as they are...these are the same folks who plan to fly off into the sky, leaving cars, clothes, family %26amp; friends to suffer as they should...seeing as they were "Left Behind" because they didn't dot every i and cross every t . . .



How Christ-like, eh? Hmmm? NOT. That particularly foolish idea is the product of the imagination of a 12 year old girl in Scotland about a hundred hears ago. It's commonly called "The Rapture".



As for Global Warming?



Well . . . it's simply fires of hell melting the Artic and preparing the way for the second coming of THEIR vague version of a messiah who predicted catachlismic events . . .



But who wouldn't be caught dead or alive with people who never, ever protected, respected, or honored the very world He created out of pure love for a bunch of doomsday drones.



TAKE YOUR LIFE AND MOVE AWAY ASAP...



What is the evangelical Christian's position on the issue of Global Warming?

God is in charge ,



he has probably caused it to scare us a bit



he will also fix it



dont worry



The beautifull heaven is waiting



Get ready to accept death



This in reality at the end of the day is probably all we can do anyway ,because we cannot evacuate people to safer places if the whole world is affected.



So everybody on your knees and pray



But it would have been better to say everybody on your feet and clean up the rubbish and plant some trees ,



This just shows you that they have accepted their fate and cant wait to get to heaven



or they are exstraterestrial after all and regard this planet as disposable ,a place for transition .

How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

I've known him for about 8 months and we 1st talked on myspace and then we switched over to conversing on messenger. I did a background check, so he is indeed who he says he is. Ok problem is that I a hard time trusting guys. No matter how much he reassures me I always find a reason to "break up" with him and then i end up realizing i made a huge mistake and come back. I guess I have a hard time believing him bc he's very handsome, but is also a christian. He has not lied to thus far about anything, yet i still accuse. He forgives me for my actions, but i feel awful bc it's a cycle. How can i overcome this? The reason we have not talked on the phone or met is bc he's extremely insecure and has HUGE rejection issues. So, I am taking everything slow in that aspect of the relationship. He is also in college ( I am too) and he has too take care of the household bc his dad is an recovering addict and mom is also in the situation, yet she has job and does work.



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

That's not a relationship. It's just two faceless ppl being nice to each other.I can understand taking things slow, but considering you haven't met? Find someone real.



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

you first need to fix yourself! there has to be an underlying reason as to why you don't trust men, and that issue needs to be addressed before you can begin or maintain a new relationship



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

Perhaps maybe you have an issue. That's something that you will have to look into. Just remember, reagrdless of anything "what's done in the dark, will come to the light" so don't trip on the trust issue. If he does something wrong, you'll find out. It always comes out. Just enjoy your time together...



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

Very strange indeed. You dont talk on the phone? And you havent seen eachother....that sends up a red flag there. I wouldnt really consider it a relationship in the first place. I mean from what you wrote you two are just friends. If I were you I would put the brakes on and just be friends-that way you dont keep breaking up with him.



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

let me be as honest as i can. i'm in an LDR as well (we used to live in the same place) and i have had friends in situations like yours.



1) I don't know how feasible this is, but if at all possible, you NEED to meet him. I've had friends who were deceived after even a year of dating and several meetings. You can never truly know someone until you know their voice, expressions, mannerisms, their physical, real self. It is an indispensible part of the relationship. Even if it's only once, to have solid ground to stand on.



2) You won't break up with the right guy once you meet him.



3) Give him the benefit of the doubt about the handsome and Christian parts. It can happen.



Best of luck! Just do what feels right.



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

It sounds to me like he didn't have much fun growing up, as you describe his parents. A long distance relationship can be hard. Insecure is for sure. I would be skeptical. He can tell you anything you want to hear. If you say he's very handsome, but yet you haven't talked on the phone or met because he's extremely insecure, I wouldn't get involved. Too many bad things happen from the internet honey. Don't believe everything you see or read about a potential date, especially on the internet. Be CAREFUL!



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

Relax my dear..You sound tense. Chill sweetie. If you keep this up you will drive him away. Phone conversations can be very nice. Don't pressure him...Say this...when your ready we can talk on the phone..No more no less..Eventually he will. If not it is time to move on..



How Can you Maintain Trust in an LDR?

GROW- THE FU-UP? WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR A MAN TO TREAT YOU BAD TO ABUSE, YOUR ABUSING YOURSELF EVERDAY BY NOT GETTING TO KNOW HIM. YOU CLAIM HE LOVES YOU. YET YOU QUESTION THAT LOVE. YOU HAVE THE PROBLEM. EITHER TAKE HIM NOW OR LET HIM GO. LEARN TO LOVE, LET GO OF THE PAST. HE IS YOUR FUTURE. SO WHAT ABOUT HIS PARENTS. YOUR LOVE CAN CHANGE ALL OF THAT IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM.

Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

On myspace her and her ex USED to (when they where together) tell each other they love each other, miss each other, etc. (this is on the comments eveyone can read). (it was a long distance relationship where they RARELY saw each other).



She broke up with him after almost a year but because of religious differences, he's mormon, she is christian.



Without me even asking, the other day she started telling me that she didn't even like him, it was a long distance relationship, that he drank all the time, was a quitter and tried to get out of the military under the guise of insanity, that he was always depressed and his mommy was constantly sending him anti depressant medication, that he wasn't even funny like me, that he was too nice, and smothered her and sent her flowers waaay too much.



So either she was lying to him about how she felt about him at that time or she is lying to me? Or? It could be that she is trying to tell me I am way better than him. I dunno what to think



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

Why you get yourself all bothered with that ..



You like her .. you are with her now ..



She is lie to you ?? even if .. why she lies ??



That must be cause you mean something to her ..



She want you in her life .. so she try to convince you of something .. that she want you and like you and need you .. So .. what her lies tell .. if she lie ..



It tells that she is really all of that to you ..



Forget it .. or try to forget .. just now it is about you and her .. You wanna it work .. just talk your mind .. and let her be herself with you ..



Go after that ..



She is all after you .. Cann't you see that ??



You are the man ..



Go on .. let her see that you care and you want her too ..



The past is passed ..



Future all infront of you ..



You are the man ..



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

why are you even worried about this. Feelings change, she may have thought she felt that way at the time about him and now being with you may just make her realize she did not feel that way. Either way you are worrying about something that seems to me a non-issue. She is with you , you are happy with eachother, he is an EX for a reason. I think yo ushould just be happy and realize she is saying how great you are by means of comparison.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

It sounds to me that she may be a bit insecure. She may be worried that you are starting to think that they may hook up again so she is reassuring you that she's happy with you and he's out of the picture



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

People think they feel things when they don't. Maybe that is why she told him what she told him. It sounds to me like she is just telling you how she feels. When I tell boyfriends things like this, they swear up and down Im cheating. But Im not. I just like to talk to people, tell them how I feel, and them tell me how they feel. I love the feeling of getting things off your chest. Maybe the timing of bringing up the conversation wasnt the best? Good Luck man.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

I hate it when the subject of ex's comes up in a relationship... it can turn any conversation sore. My boyfriend and me used to do it when we started to go out but then we realised that we spent the entire evening speaking about each other's ex's and basically it just ruined both our moods so we made a no-ex-conversation policy....just DONT go there except when its really important (like a death threat or something....) Trust me your conversations will be much more pleasant if you do this.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

Time to move on...too much chaos and drama.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

okay, shes probably slightly lying on both of them. like, she might have been good w/her ex, but then started to not like him, but kept up the comments because she didn't want to be not in love with him, or because she didn't want to hurt him that much. Probably it being the public comments, both.



Then, cuz you've been cool with this, she started to like you. She wanted to be in a relationship, so she told you all this. It probably isn't a "i love you with a firey passion that burns deep within my soul" kind of thing, but it isn't a "yeah you're nice and kinda cute but whatever" kinda thing.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

Maybe by telling you her past you will get a full understand of what she is looking for in a guy and what she expects, trying to determine if she lying to you is something you can figure out through her expressions and body language. You will know that she is lying just by the way she is saying something. Maybe you need to ask her why she is sharing personal details with you and what is the purpose of it all. If you don't want to pursue a relationship with her then don't but make it clear to her and tell her what your intentions are, that way she does not get confused. Maybe she just needs a friend, that she can tell all her problems to and can't find anyone else.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

Why would she out of the blue start talking to you about him like she has to defend herself, is she trying to hide something? Sounds like maybe she is trying to convince herself that she doesn't love him anymore.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

well.... if u really like her like u say and she says, then ask her about it, ask her why she wrote those things and why she is telling u something differently. i mean i would want to know what is wrong with my boyfriend/or just friend. tell her how u feel about the stuff u have been reading. and if she really likes u she will be okay with the fact that u want to know the truth... hope i helped a little



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

to be honest it could be that she said that to him cuz she thought she felt sumthing wit him cuz gurls will jus say things cuz the guy says it to em...thats only sum gurls not all gurls are like that...sum guys do the same..i was in a long distance relationship and we told eachother we were ment to be and everything else..but he was talking to sum gurls..he was sending gurls messages on myspace calling em sexy and baby and soi broke up wit him...so maybe she thought sumthing was there....so i hope everything works out for u..



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

Maybe he recently professed some feelings for her and this is her counterreaction trying to convince you subconsciously that she doesn't like him like that anymore. She doesn't want to tell you directly what happened (if something did) because she thinks it will make you jealous or upset when you don't really have any reason to be. Not unless she starts taking unexpected trips out of town, then I'd be suspicious.



Ladies, why is my girl telling me this? Is she lying?

I am sure that she had feelings for him or they would have never been together but it sounds like her feelings for him changed and now she is into you, its not a bad thing that she had feelings for him but maybe now she doesn't so she sees the flaws that he has

Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

I am quiet if i dont know you very well. I like to share my feelings and also listen to you. I feel the most important thing in a guys life is his girl, and he should make her feel like she is that important. I am christian, and obey the ten commandments. I would cry on your shoulder if I needed to and I would let you cry on mine if you needed too.



Haha, but I'm not emo. Or I dont think I am...



I'm a guy



18 years old.



5'10" tall



Fit



Swimmer body type



blue eyes.



blonde hair.



glasses (they dont look bad).



semi-tight clothes, but they are still comfortable.



I like to wear lighter clothes.



nice smile.



kind of quiet, but I can get talkative once I know you.



I do crazy things when I'm in love.



play harmonica and guitar.



I write worship songs.love songs.poetry.



Guys are put on this earth to make Girls feel like they are princesses being swept off their feet and in love



People told me to post pictures or whatever....



my myspace is (for pics)



w w w . m y s p a c e . c o m / p e t j a c k



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

oh my gosh you sound A M A Z I N G.



yes i would Definitely without a doubt date you...



although your myspace did say you were "in a relationship" ..so why are you asking if girls will date you?



but yes you sound truly amazing. any girl would be lucky to have you i am sure!



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

You're welcome! :)



and alright, i was just wondering, because you sound too good to be true.. so you very well could have been in a relationship! :) hey, and if you ever wanna chat or anything then feel free to email me at: iluvhotcookies@yahoo.com. hope you have a great day!! Report It



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

I wouldn't date you.



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

wat



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

dude i asked a question like this and some lozer removed it!!



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

i am not really into blondes, i like brunettes, and you are 18, i am going to be 20 soon, soo probs not, unless i saw you and i thought you were dead drop handsome, who knows, i also want to get to know you



Would you date me? (take three)...sorry people told me to add more things, so I did...?

IF I KNEW U MORE BETTER I PROBABLY CONCETER IT

Should I stay or should I go?

I got suspicious of my gf and asked for her myspace password. What I found was that when guys asked her out she would say she is busy this week maybe next week, for months on end instead of saying she has a bf. Turns out she has always done this to blow guys off, even when single (its true) so she doesn't hurt their feelings. What really concerns me though is that one of the guys told her he is ready to hang out when she is. She wrote this long email back and at the end said she was not sure how much longer we would be together. Thing is, this guy had been after her for several months when she was single and never got a date with her. To top it off she is a no sex before marriage christian, so cheating is out of character for her, especially with this guy. Still I can't ignore what this looks like. She has since slept with me and done a lot more to keep me but the trust is gone and I don't know what to do, she says she was just venting to the wrong person, a mistake. Can this be fixed?



Should I stay or should I go?

i would talk to her about the way she feels about u.



maybe she sed she wasnt going to last with u because the relationship isnt going well... and the fact that u had to go into her myspace tells me right away that something is wrong with u guys. so sit her down and get it all on the table.... dont just leave without fighting for it.



Should I stay or should I go?

I do the same thing !And in reality it is a huge downfall oin your character! I have learned that sometimes you just need to be blunt! She needs to learn that too!

 
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