I am so happily married but...?

a guy contacted me on myspace and was very flirty, flattering, made me feel sexy, and aroused something in me that I have never really felt before. We have been chatting for about a month or so now, he tells me that he loves me. I don't LOVE him, but I enjoy him, but feel like I am betraying my husband. This guy knows I will never leave my husband. It feels so good, but yet so wrong. How in the heck does his kind of thing happen? I am a Christian woman too and he knows that! I am so messed up and need a nice way of telling him I just cannot do this any more! please help me out!

I am so happily married but...?

I think you're on the right path here, you've recognized that this is wrong and you've put your answer out here for a little good advice and help. You need to try to stand away from this problem now. Put some distance between you and your computer for a couple days...and when you come back just stay firm in your resolution to not chat with this guy.

And that pathetic nut down there Tomac?? he might was well have ask to have been invited to the 3some he mentioned...guys like you are the reason she is on here looking for a way out. Creep.

I am so happily married but...?

well, I think we both know that you have to just stop. or else you wouldn't be on here looking for answers. you know it's wrong-

I am so happily married but...?

The grass is not always greener on the other side. Stay with your hubby and tell the guy in a nice way....and that is direct just like you indicated.Try to get the same from your hubby--flirt w/him!!

I am so happily married but...?

Tell him you are being monitored by your husband and you can 't talk anymore.

I am so happily married but...?

Just stop. Take a break from the computer- all sites. Get out of the house and have a life again. You are better than this. You do not owe the online guy anything. It's a fantasy. Just stop. Use all that time to help someone- to get more done.

Please tell me that you did not share your address or complete name.

I am so happily married but...?

I guess that you know its wrong, but it must be like a guilty indulgence. You end it. Period. You have a person on My Space and a husband in your bed. You can't do both and the only one you are not being honest with is the one you took vows with. End the on line love affair, because that's what it is, and try to get some self respect and dignity back. You don't have to be 'nice' about it, just do it. He is in 'space', and if its such a problem, get rid of your computer.

I am so happily married but...?

Simple- Say "I'm not going to do this anymore." And cut him out! You don't even have to tell him anything- your priority is your husband, and if you have to think of " a nice way" of telling this other guy, then you're already disrespecting your marriage.

It's as simple as you make it to be.

I am so happily married but...?

Your obviously not as happy as you claim in your marriage.

If you were, this would not be a topic.

Sounds like your missing something in your marriage, and the online relationship nurtures the void!

I am so happily married but...?

It feels wrong b/c it is wrong and it is betraying your husband. I don't want to be mean, but how would you feel if the situation was reversed? It is always nice to know that you are still attracitve to others and it feels good when others are saying great things about you, but you are married. You should have put a stop to this right away. Tell him to leave you alone, you don't feel right about betraying your husband.

I am so happily married but...?

After you are in a relationship for a while it is very easy to let your eyes and mind stray.Yes in a way you are betraying your husband because Lust is a sin.Maybe there is something that is going on that makes you want to stray ,try not to give in.Think about it and work on all the reasons you are starting to stray and correct them.Everyone thinks about being with someone other than there spouse.That's normal! If the guy on myspace lives any where with in driving range you have to cut all the ties with him. We all end up with the same excuse one thing lead to another ...stop it before it does

I am so happily married but...?

My fiance cheated on me with someone he met on myspace... it starts innocent but then you get in too deep. It does happen even when you don't mean for it to. Cut it off cause it's not worth it, imagine how you would feel if your husband was flirting to another girl on a website. It sucks. I like the idea of flirting with your husband too... your man loves you more than life itself probably.. so get rid of the zero and stick with your hero! : )

I am so happily married but...?

Instead of focusing on this fatuous wooing and cooing online with this person, stop the messaging and find ways to put the pep back in your marriage; go away for a weekend, have a candlelight dinner, go for a cruise, anything. Buy some sexy things from Victoria's Secret, change your hair color/style but that's what you need to do.

As far as this myspace jerk, just say GOODBYE! Don't even think about being nice; you owe him NOTHING and you owe your marriage ALL.

This kind of thing happens when women like you get bored and jerks like the myspace guy go trolling for women like you...so STOP IT.