So there's this guy.?

story of our lives right?

well, I'm pretty young and there's this guy and i really love him and not just as a "guy". he means alot to me as a friend as well.

the problem?

no im not some desperate retarded clingy freak. but he lives like 4 four states away and well YEAH. my friends tell me to get over him but. you think i havent already tried?

ALSO. i only get to see him during the summer but we talk and stuff via aim and myspace but still.

ANYWAYS.

i dont know how to get over him... or even IF i should. because i really like him. and i dont know if im being stupid but... im a really strong christian. and sometimes i feel like im going to somehow end up marrying him. and maybe God is also telling me this. but i dont know if it's REAL or not. you know? like doubt maybe? seeing as he's not an actual person that you can talk to that lives on earth im not sure if it's really him and not myself. and im so young. and marriage already? i dont know...

So there's this guy.?

if your heart is telling you to be with him then go with it and be with him and that but if you feel hes not wanting to be with you like that then i would just stay close friends with him and not be with him.

So there's this guy.?

Go date ten other guys.

So there's this guy.?

There is a chance for you guys in it still. When you may travel to see him or visa versa. Don't lose contact with him because you may have a chance.

So there's this guy.?

i'd go with your feelings. if you have a strong feeling that he's the one you're suppose to be with then dont give up, but dont rush it either. You dont have to get married tomorrow or next year. Let things develop over time. Get a good friendship built first and then see what happens.

So there's this guy.?

4 states away is pretty far! Find out if he has a gf yet. If he doesn't, u guys could maybe have a long distant relationship, or something. but If he does have a gf, well, he can still be ur friend.

If u really, really like him and he feels the same way, there could definitely be something between u guys.

So there's this guy.?

Here's what God told me. You're too young to get married. When you are ready it will be a feeling that is as certain as the ground under your feet.

So there's this guy.?

It sounds like your in love. And that your asking should I wait for him? find out how he feels and let him know that no matter what his answer is you will always be his friend.

the fact that he's 4 states away could be a blessing in disguise. Being that you are so young you will be able to nurture your emotional feeling without the physical temptation that plagues young people. Enjoy you youth or childhood while you can. Good luck to you

So there's this guy.?

if you have no ties where you live and you are serious.Shack up together in his state.if the feelings are mutual.By the way do you live in chicago because we use that "guy" word alot.

So there's this guy.?

Ahn young ddonsang! lol.. sorry

Well, you're just going to have to deal with only seeing him that much. Unless you move over four states.

If you don't want to get over him then don't.

Don't think about marriage yet, just be happy with what you have now. Try to make him like you I guess. But you probably shouldn't do anything until you're old enough to marry.

So there's this guy.?

alright if u think hes the one then juz date other guys but keep in contact with him and ask him how he feels. most of the time ur gut is right. so listen to it. he's prolly a great guy for u anyway

So there's this guy.?

Sounds like you found the man of your dreams, i think that life is short and you should go with your gut . if you want to be with him go be with him . call him and tell him , i love you! think about........ it what if you never get the chance to say it one last time . good luck

So there's this guy.?

some days your friends' advice is the best advice.

So there's this guy.?

ok so i think you should go out with some other guys. and then even when you have a different bf if you still always think about him then you know hes the one.