Am I just jealous or what?

the situation is like this :

I had read my husband's myspace messages, He emailed one of his co worker (who became a model) He told me that before we get married, He really like this girl so much. He tried to get that girl attention but since he wasnt her type of guy, she dont care.. I know thats past and i dont care about that. Im still glad he shared those moments to me.

He emailed her just yesterday like this " I hope you get the job. you'll make a very beautiful model. I have always thought that. good luck and hope to you see you in playboy I mean on the cat walk or whatever you models walk on".. I felt insulted being a wife..anyone out there that can tell me I am just jealous or what? does he mean anything other than that msg? am I just over reacting again? He is christian and I think thats not a christian way to say something. ..btw, Im hurt anyhow..yOur answer will be appreciated..thank you all..

Am I just jealous or what?

The message he wrote should not have upset you. It was very normal for a guy (even a married one) to say to a former acquaintance. The better question is why were you reading his mail? Even a married man needs his privacy, and you have invaded it. If he is a caring husband, and good to you, then give him a little privacy and don't be so insecure. If he is not a caring husband, or is not good to you, then you should get him out of your life........but still not read his mail. Just my humble opinion, though, and you must do what feels right for you.

Am I just jealous or what?

What does the religion has to do anything with your hubby's email??

Why do u people have to bring religion into everything???

U mean christians are not supposed to wish anyone good????

Oh my God..your kind make me sick

Am I just jealous or what?

deal with it soon she might be the other woman

Am I just jealous or what?

So ask yourself, do you trust him? If you do, then don't worry about it. She is living out her dream and doesn't have time for him and he is with you and loves you. Stop betraying his trust in you be reading his email.

Am I just jealous or what?

He started fine but telling her about playboy was a little bit odd. Check that out, it's not like you would joke with a guy friend that happens to be a model that you want to see him naked in a magazine.

Am I just jealous or what?

It sounds like he's keeping her in the wings.

Am I just jealous or what?

i had a bf lyk that it means wot they want it to mean but y dont u talk to him about it then u might get an answer he might have bin abit sopportive of her u no give her a bit confidence u never no but if it worrys u then talk to him hell tell u

Am I just jealous or what?

Your very right to feel insulted!

Tell him what you saw. And it hurt you! What he is doing by emailing her or leaving messages is wrong. It is not being true to you and your marriage. But it is unlikely she is just reading the messages and blowing him off. But as a Christian he should not be reading porno...Playboy or anything in that line. It compromises woman and Christains are to have respect for woman..

Am I just jealous or what?

Yes u must b jealous, any wife will b! its ok to admire another woman but not too much, I mean ur husbnd is still hoping that someday his former crush will notice him? and in a playboy magazine? u know, its not to make ur relationship sour but f u let ur husbnd do that, tym will come that he will reject u, but in a positive thinking, f he really loves u then in the end u will b happy, ur meant to each other!!

Am I just jealous or what?

Yes. You're jealous and insecure and very annoying.

Am I just jealous or what?

ZIP IT..............well u need to find many things more ............maybe he was just remembering his olden days.....well wat wud u do if u get in a contact wid a ur first crush wid whom u felt like in heaven..............well u won't just go running after him and leave ur family????????so dere is ur answer..........one email can't just make u so much sucpicious......................if u feel he is gettin to over wid it......then just talk to him

Am I just jealous or what?

he is wasting his time chasing her.

why can't he see that?

Am I just jealous or what?

Men for some reason dont take no very well,it probably males him feel insecure that he is not her type.On the other hand he married what he wanted,he should be happy and leave the past in the past.Try talking to him about your feelings and tell him your praying that god shows him the error of his ways.Ask him how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot abd you were e mailing guys.Good luck will remember you in my prayers.

Am I just jealous or what?

it's normal for you to feel that way. you felt insulted and jealous, too for what he did. but on what you wrote for what he emailed to her, if you read it again and again, i don't think there's more than anything else he means about his email, it's just a formal compliment to a co-worker but still better for you to tell him what you feel about it and if he cares about your feelings, he must stop contacting that girl again.

Am I just jealous or what?

sounds like a friendly good luck note. Im a christian to and I think you might be over reacting.

Am I just jealous or what?

u r right by feeling jeolous.if he doesnt have any intention to get her attention towards him then theres no need for him to praise other women.u talk to him regarding this saying u felt bad abt it.

Am I just jealous or what?

I don't think he meant anything serious than what he just said, please trust him, once he married you then you are the woman he Love and will ever Loved. Am happy he is christian, the christian life teaches us a lot of things. Just Trust him and he will Love you forever, remember to pray for him everyday OK, it really helps.

Am I just jealous or what?

You have to get jealous, he is ur husband n its unfair for him to do something like this, its better u tell him Wat u feel , have a frank conversation, ask him how he would feel if u did something like this

Am I just jealous or what?

there's nothing to be hurt about. your husband was just making her feel good about her job.come on girl.....you're the one he's married to....wats the harm in admiring some1. ok if these will help, look out for her pictures %26amp; start looking good or dress like the models so he can admire you also. wat you dont know or think wont kill you. all the best.