Saturday, November 28, 2009

Ladies did she have bad intentions (cheating) or no?

A guy on myspace who had tried to get a date with my no sex before marriage christian gf for several months back when she was single (never did) was still trying to get with her after she and I met and became a couple. What bothers me is that I found out that whenever he asked her out she would say she is busy instead of "I have a bf". She claims she did not want to hurt his feelings. This may be true since she has always blown guys off that way, even when single (she showed me proof). She says they eventually give up.



Also, not long after she finally told him about me he told her he is mad she chose me and didn't even give him a chance and is ready to hang out when she is. She said a bunch of things and at the end added that she is not sure how much longer we would be together is waiting for answer from God. She says she was just venting to the wrong person. She blew the guy off for months even when single and is a no sex before marriage christian. Did she have bad intentions or no?



Ladies did she have bad intentions (cheating) or no?

Only God and she truly know...



It could really go either way... I don't think she intended to be deceitful, but in essence that is what she has done.



It is one thing to blow guys off with that excuse when you are single... but when you have a bf, that's a sure fire easy way out of "offers"...



Ladies did she have bad intentions (cheating) or no?

I think the only intention she had was to let the guy down easily and thats the end of it.



Ladies did she have bad intentions (cheating) or no?

Why don't you just move to Utah and get it over with?



Ladies did she have bad intentions (cheating) or no?

no one can be entirely sure. but to explain why she may not have come right out and said that she is involved with you, her boyfriend; she likes the attention. its flattering to know that guys are attracted to you, even for a no sex before marriage christian girl. she probably did not have bad intentions, so i wouldnt worry if i were you.

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