Help me parent problems?

well im 17 ,18 in 2 months 3 years ago my parents got a divorce my mom left my dad was with another man for 2 years i was doing better and getting over it then one day my mom deceided she had a enough and wanted back and my dad said yes i said f no but it didnt matter when she came back she also had 60,00 dollars in debt and to this day we are still in debt and they cant help me pay for collage, ever since she came back my mom tries to control me i cant have a myspace up until 3 months ago i couldnt have a girlfriend when i go hang out with my friends she follows me and has people spy on me, when i go to the store i see her behind me seing where im going she hates my friends and wont letthem come over when my parents got divorced i went to school b4 that i was homeschooled wen she came bk she made me be homeschooled

this year i get 2 go 2 a christian school bc im a senior but i have to pay for it myself im just upset with all this and want to know if i am justified at all and wt 2 do

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just to explain more my friends arent a bad influence they took me to church and youth group and they kept me out of trouble and from killing myself, i work my butt off in school so i can get into collage and be a nurse and its not that i wanted a gf they said that i couldnt have one , once i got grounded for having a girl call my cellphone(not a bad girl mrs victorian 4.0 student and my parents scared her away.

Help me parent problems?

Count the days until you can get away from that enviroment. School isn't impossible because of no money. You can get grants and loans. Once you are 18, you are free to leave and I would suggest you do that. It sounds like you have a support group outside of your family-take advantage of any help you may get from them. And your mom needs some serious pyschiatric help-get her some and if she won't go, pressure your dad to get her to go.

Help me parent problems?

Tell your mother to get a life and stop following you and if she refuses to stop tell her you will have her charged with stalking, she'll lay low. It doesn't matter whether she is your mother she has no right to follow you. Maybe she wants you sexually and thats why she don't want you to have a girlfriend, i know it sounds sick but it does happen and women are more likely to hide a mental problem because they feel shameful about it.

I hope you get to College and graduate, and that 4.0 girl you had see her behind moms back.

Help me parent problems?

I know that you feel, your mom thinks that you can take a wrong way. I don't have a mom, she passed away when I was 3 but had a second one. I have 22 now, I'm still stupid, have no responsibility, a person who can't be trusted, - that's her opinion. I had a fight on summer and now we don't talk with each over. This time I still went to college, worked as Dj, have a girlfriend but live with my grandma. Now, she - my second mom - asked my sister how much money do I earn and what I'm doing with that? It's funny, coz she is interested so much for me, not coz she cares, but only to prove that I'm still stupid, a child, non prepared for life.

My advice, take a job, take care of yourself and don't start to smoke, drink or anything stupid. Help yourself and one day, when you'll be "free" maybe you'll remember what I write here.

Help me parent problems?

Parents can seem over bearing at times! But most of the things they do are for your own good. I hated my mother in high school but now that I am 24, married and with 2 kids I know she did the best she could. A good thing wouls be for you to have a talk with your parents. Tell them how you feel and what you would like changed. Tell them you dont want to end up resenting them for the rest of your life and you want them to trust you more. Be be adult about it. No swearing or yelling. If you start that up, then they do have reason to follow you around. Tell your mother that when she left you lost all trust in her and you dont know if you will get it back. Tell her you felt that by her leaving your dad that she also left you. I think if you talk to them about it with out being a smart mounth they will start to understand you

Help me parent problems?

you will have to work it out with mom good luck

Help me parent problems?

You need to work this out with your parents.Take some responsibility dont smoke and dont do drugs or alcohol and do not follow the wrong crowd.You should do okay.

Help me parent problems?

You're almost a man by now. It's time to tell her to get a life, and stop riding you. Remind her that she abandoned you, if you really need it. Perhaps she feels that this is like make-up for all the wrong she's done, but this is going beyond that.

Best of luck.

Help me parent problems?

Ok one thing at a time: first of all you can still go to college even if your parents cant pay for it!! Keep getting those good grades. You are a senior-if you apply for college you could go during the summer-go to college "away" from home,lol. As far as your Mom goes there isnt much you can do until you can move out. I totally understand where her actions are making you upset but really nothing that can be done-unless your Dad can intervene with her. Try talking to him. Maybe he can get her to quit following you around you arent a baby.