Saturday, November 28, 2009

Meeting someone online?

Ok, so I've been talking to a guy through myspace for about a week or two. He goes to the same college as me and his myspace talks all about how he is a christian. We've made arrangements to meet tomorrow at the student center at our college. I'll bring a friend of mine with me and I won't be alone with him.



I've heard all about bad stuff when you meet people online, but I figure its inside at the college and I'll be with a friend. Is this safe?



Meeting someone online?

閳?Sure, it's safe.



I mean look- He goes to your college.



It's not like he's some pervert coming out of a different state..



Just be careful- Don't put off signs you don't mean.



Because, since he does go to your college, He could 'Stalk' you if you lead him on.



Good luck :]



Meeting someone online?

yes



i don't se what bad could happen



Meeting someone online?

As long as you are in an open area where people are around and can see you then yes, you should be fine. I met my boyfriend online and we have been together for 5 years now. :-)



Meeting someone online?

It sounds pretty safe, but if you start to have a bad feeling, make your excuses and get the hell outta there.



Meeting someone online?

well if your at the same college...then u should know him lol



Meeting someone online?

My Space is for kids and losers.



Meeting someone online?

Just stay in the area where there are other people %26amp; don't give him your address or anything like that until you get to know him better.



I know quite a few people that have met online and are dating now.



Good Luck and be safe!



Meeting someone online?

yha you should be good. Smart doing it in a public place. Just to warn you, it may make things super akward if your friend is right there. So maybe she can be like 20 ft away so she is able to see you yet not be all up in your conversation.



Meeting someone online?

I don't see how it could be a problem. You're in a public place with a friend. Go for it!



Meeting someone online?

i think it's safe. and it's very mature of you to consider those things that you said. i hope though that everything will turn out great so that your effort of talking to that guy in your space will not be wasted. good luck! dont forget to fix yourself, be pretty and all so that if things dont work out when you see each other, atleast you are pretty and all! :) tc.



Meeting someone online?

It varies. I've met people from online and have had very different experiences. One turned out to be a crazy psycho and I had to call the cops on him and the others turned out ok. I think you just have to make sure he actually goes go to your school. Try finding him on facebook and see what's going on with him there. I find that myspaces arn't as reliable with information as facebook.



Definately bring a friend and don't have them leave unless you feel totally comfortable with the guy. Also, don't go anything with him unless you feel way comfy with him and expect things to continue as such.



Be safe!!



Meeting someone online?

Taking someone with you is an excellent idea.. keep it that way the entire time.. I am recently new to the dating thing especially the online thing.. I have talked to many many guys on here.. none of which I ever went to meet .. until recently.. we had much conversation.. i would ask questions and then maybe in someother conversation, i would ask the same questions again to see if the answers were the same. I found out who he knows, where he goes.. everything. I also thought of actually asking him to identify himself with a drivers license.. you get to see an address.. Please take your time to find out all that you can.. talk to people that he talks to.. anything that will save you from being hurt or even killed .. Safe is only a word.. protected is more fathable....



Meeting someone online?

I think it's pretty safe. You'll be with a friend and you're meeting in a public place. But just because he says he goes to your college and he's a Christian doesn't mean he is. People can say anything they want and be anyone they want to be online. I think if you're interested in him and it sounds like you are you should go with your friend and meet him. You might like him or you might not but you won't know unless you try. Good luck and be safe.



Meeting someone online?

if u have a cell phone set a rescue ring for like 5 or 10 minutes after hes suppose to be there and then if things go well just say u'll answer them back later and if u dont like situation make excuse that one of ur friends needs u to help them with their class work for that day and u need to meet up with them to help them tell him u'll try and meet up with him later on if u can. school is a busy time so it can make for good excuses...



Meeting someone online?

I would only meet someone in a public place, and yeah have a friend, actually two or three with me. And dont drink or eat anything offered to you unless they take a bite first. Next, I'd also not go to a private area for romance, I'd get to know him inside and out but you need a friend with you.(preferably a football player so big he doesnt have a neck!!! . Common sense.

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