Can she be trusted?

A guy on myspace who had tried to get a date with my no sex before marriage christian gf for several months back when she was single (never did) was still trying to get with her after she and I met and became a couple. What bothers me is that I found out that whenever he asked her out she would say she is busy instead of "I have a bf". She claims she did not want to hurt his feelings. This may be true since she has always blown guys off that way, even when single (she showed me proof). She says they eventually give up.

Also, not long after she finally told him about me he told her he is mad she chose me and didn't even give him a chance and is ready to hang out when she is. She said a bunch of things and at the end added that she is not sure how much longer we would be together is waiting for answer from God. She says she was just venting to the wrong person. She blew the guy off for months even when single and is a no sex before marriage christian. Did she have bad intentions or no?

Can she be trusted?

She may be questioning herself in the relationship...but she definitely should not have vented to this other guy. That's a little disrespectful and also hurtful. She might also like the thrill of knowing that someone else is pursuing her so she kind of strings it along to keep her options open. If she's not ready to be in a committed relationship she should be woman enough to tell you and not go behind your back and talk to people she doesn't really know about your situation.

Can she be trusted?

I'd have the same concerns too.

Although she might be totally trustworthy, you must tell her exactly what you wrote here. In fact, show her this question.

Tell her that suspecting her like this is killing you from inside. I am sure it is killing you.

If you cannot bear this, then tell her that you want to take a break from her because you feel that she is keeping things ambiguous and keeping more than one boy in the line so that she has a safety net when she breaks up with you, just in case.

Hope this helps!